The death of the heart is caused by the lack of reckoning oneself and following ones desire.
We should not expect that the presence or absence of something will determine our happiness. The only thing that determines our happiness is us. It is not an expectation we should have from anything else. It exists from within.
Don’t get offended by a persons misguidance if you haven’t put one foot forward to advise them.
We end up seeing this escalate into backbiting where everybody except the person who needs corrected knows about their error.
What benefit is there in that?